Everyone’s life is a story.
To really know someone, you need to know the story of their life. One’s life story is a statement of who they are.
In the late 1960’s and through the 1970’s, there was a marketing professor/sociologist by the name of Morris Massey. He had undergraduate and M.B.A. degrees from the University of Texas, Austin, and had a Ph.D. in business from Louisiana State University. Massey produced a series of training videos that were the jewel of motivational training sessions used by several corporations. His videos were part of the required (motivational) sessions by many Fortune 50 companies in the late 70’s and early 80’s, as they attempted to mimic the company loyalty programs that were on the rise in Japan by Japanese companies. I recall sitting through many of these sessions, and while they were required by my company at the time, I did find them to be more reflective and thought provoking than motivational.
In one of his sessions, he dealt with the psychology of understanding a person through a motivational session called “what you are is where you were when“. It was from this session that I have some lasting recollections and is where adaptation of the line “we are what we were when“. Since my introduction to this Massey session, I have maintained this long-held belief, that, despite who we are at any given point in our lives, we’re simply a culmination of our “empirical” life experiences. This is true if you’re 10 years old, 30 years old, 50 years old, and so on.
It’s often said that we’re a culmination of our life’s experiences. Everyone has an opinion about anything and everything, and we are no different. As the old saying holds, “opinions are like assholes, everybody has one.” The fact of matter is, rarely do we change anyone’s world view with our written or spoken word, but often through their empirical life experiences. While we don’t often, or easily, alter our world views based on what others think or believe, we do believe we can be motivated, encouraged and even inspired by open, honest, respectful and thoughtful dialogue.
If we (all) had the time to tell our life stories, and conversely, if we had the time to listen to other’s stories, our view of others may not change, but we could certainly gain a better understanding of why we are what we are. Why are some people; overly-social and others anti-social, polite & kind while others are rude & obnoxious, why does one dedicate their life to savings lives and someone else become a mass murderer, why do some place a high value on family and others isolate themselves and feel antagonized by family. Becoming wealthy or being a visionary – say a Steve Jobs or a Bill Gates – are accomplishments of a select few and is not the norm for most people. The personality traits of these people are still the subjective forces that make them who they are and are most likely the more superficial and not the obscure images of who we are.
Along the way, I will attempt to tell the story of my life. It will be a memoir of sorts. I won’t tell my story in the traditional sense (i.e., in a chronologically ascending or descending order), but I will attempt to tell it using a conglomeration of narratives, parables, anecdotes, annals and parodies , by randomly linking selected life events, experiences to anecdotes, and short stories.
To make sense of it all, I will use interconnecting links at various points to help the reader stay connected to each event and allow them to move easily forward and backward with each story by using a hyperlink called More on This Story Later (MOSL). This link attached to each story will connect to a related blog, Vlog or story.
So, if you ask me what I do, other than saying I am retired, I will tell you I am a StoryTeller. Storytelling is the basis for almost everything in our society, and the way we interact, build, communicate, live and dream all derives from it. … Storytelling involves a deep understanding of human emotions, motivations, and psychology in order to truly move an audience.
Everyone has a story and it should be told.
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